How do I change the user parent/switch Parent 1 and Parent 2?
There is a button on the User Parent tab to switch.

You would use this button if you wanted a particular parent as Parent 1, ie Father as Parent 1 and Mother as Parent 2
Please note, if you switch, Non-User parent will be able to see all information the User Parent has completed. This may be important if this is a split family with court orders in place.